The first thing here for you to consider before you start to analyze this to death is what made you check the dating site in the first place?
In most cases it’s our gut that gives us a feeling that something may be off. In other cases, there are some women that just don’t trust a man in general.
If you know for a fact that he is online and active, and you decide you must confront him or you will die, don’t go at it in an accusing manner please.
A simple statement like “I noticed you have your online dating profile still up and perhaps I don’t understand the terms of our relationship correctly, could you help me out with this? Not with the ears that want to believe, but with that gut!
He did it on his own and problem was resolved with no drama. you need to seriously consider if it’s time to walk away from the relationship: If a man is still active on a dating site, his options are open and you options should remain open as well. Listen to these two classes to really deal with this the Goddessy Way: “How To be High Value And Easy To Lose And How It Can Inspire Men To Step Up” and “How To Manage Your Emotional Investment When He’s Been Stepping Up But Hasn’t Claimed You.” Even when he has claimed you verbally, your job to observe never stops.
Above all stay calm and relaxed in your Feminine energy and don’t fly off the handle and lose control of your emotions. So observe, observe and adjust your investment to his.
Katarina always says to be always on the same page as him at all time.
I don’t care what he tells you or what excuse he gives.
Unless he is a complete idiot, he is aware this would not make you happy.
From where he sat, he probably enjoyed dating you and hadn’t moved to a more serious stage yet. You were happy enough with him to want your relationship to be exclusive. Chances are he wanted to see where the relationship was going to go and got caught up in the game. If you’re sleeping together, he also might not want to give that up. Probably because you weren’t sure he wanted to be exclusive with you. You wanted to catch him and behind HIS back, logged on as a fake person to see if he’d take the bait. No guy wants to feel like his girlfriend is checking up on him, even if it’s innocent.