This leads me to believe she does not know he has been contacting me. Your ex needs to want a friendship with you for the two of you to successfully navigate a post-relationship camaraderie, and it’s pretty clear that that’s not what he wants from you.If it were, he would be treating you with a lot more respect than he is.Everyone has different places they like to take their dates to, and now you've just doubled yours.Nothing wrong with stealing romantic ideas from all your life's partners. You know that if this relationship does end, there will always be someone out there who's better for you. You haven't met most of the people you'll know yet, and TBH that is so comforting.
Are you dating a guy who seems to have a rather soft spot for his ex? If you’ve been in a passionate relationship that had to end, you’d know how hard it is to get over a special someone.
Is there a part of you — and I’m assuming there must be — that is finding it difficult to leave the past in the past with such constant reminders from such an immediate and significant person from it?
I say that the next time your ex calls you, you calmly and rationally tell him that while you wish him well, you are no longer interested in hearing updates from him or catching up with him on such a regular basis, especially given his girlfriend’s reaction when she saw you out.
The best part of a heartbreak is that it eventually ends, and sometimes it ends just around the time you meet someone NEW and GREAT. You already know that you're strong enough to survive a nasty breakup.
Sure, you know how bad it can hurt, but you also know that it's nothing you can't get through, and that lets you relax and take more chances in your new relationship.2.
etc., and he has mentioned his new relationship many times.