Focus to the point where you can no longer see anything but love, and you know without a doubt that you are the luckiest man on earth to be have this woman as your wife.5.It’s not your job to change or fix her Your job is to love her as she is with no expectation of her ever changing.And if she changes, love what she becomes, whether it’s what you wanted or not.6. For your own emotions: It’s not your wife’s job to make you happy, and she CAN’T make you sad.You are responsible for finding your own happiness, and through that your joy will spill over into your relationship and your love.As I was in Louisiana apart of a road trip this past week, I decided to check into Red Jacket Firearms, just because they happened to be within the vicinity of where I was staying in Amite. One, I wanted to know more about what happened to them after their departure from the mainstream media because of Will Hayden’s sexual assault charges.And two, were they really all up to all the hype and talk that they have generated so much of while they were famous? To answer the first question, Red Jacket Firearms has been COMPLETELY turned around. A man in Germany responded with some of the deepest insights I’ve read in years. Men in USA and Singapore spoke healing words to men in Europe and India.
You were attracted to this woman because she was the person best suited to trigger all of your childhood wounds in the most painful way so that you could heal them…After losing a woman that I loved, and a marriage of almost 16 years, here’s the advice I wish I would have had:1. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. Never forget that, and NEVER GET LAZY in your love. Protect your own heart Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance.Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife.Atrophy is the natural process when you stop working a muscle, just as it is if you stop working on your relationship. Find common goals, dreams and visions to work towards.18.