If at any point in a relationship (romantic or otherwise) the INTJ feels he is being manipulated into situations he doesn’t like, that relationship is likely to end quickly and irrevocably. The INTJ is likely to respond to all stress in more or less the same way: Withdraw, think carefully about each aspect of the situation, and finally, offer a potential solution or feedback to their partner.
Attempts to manipulate an INTJ will not end well, and the INTJ’s Partner should understand and accept this from the beginning. drama, it is important that they have the freedom to process stress in the way that suits them best.
(This is a generality, and may not apply to INTJs whose special interest is psychology, abnormal or otherwise.) The INTJ prefers to keep emotions to themselves, and even if they choose to show their emotions outwardly, they will not express them as other people might.
This results in the popular theory that most INTJs are actually androids, as well as the INTJ INTJs value the ability to plan and do things in their own way and their own time.
More likely, they will wait for the right person to enter their circle of influence.
It is important to note that INTJs value freedom and solitude, and will only start a relationship if they think that being in that relationship will be more satisfying than their When an INTJ has entered into a relationship, (s)he will often spend more time listening than speaking.
This can be distressing for the INTJ’s partner but never fear. If you don’t want to hear your INTJ’s unadulterated honesty, don’t ask. The one who thinks she’s the center of the universe and everyone has to construct their schedules around her whims. You know, the one that completely disregards your opinion because it’s not the same as his. INTJs will not tolerate these people or any that show symptoms of becoming one like them because the INTJ dislikes being manipulated into doing or saying anything they don’t want to do or say. Someone accidentally donates the other’s favorite jeans to a second-hand shop.(Trying to make an INTJ do so may cause headaches, dizziness, blindness, or death.If you experience any of these symptoms, seek INTJ help immediately.) When an INTJ finds a person worth spending time with, a partnership is formed.These conversations also serve as the way in which an INTJ will test and strengthen the relationship with their partner.It is important for an INTJ’s partner to meet this need, lest their INTJ become bored or dissatisfied.
INTJs spend the majority of their time inside their own minds and are commonly disinterested in daily expressions of romance.