If you try to impress by ‘acting’, you will have to maintain that act throughout life to keep them happy.The purpose of dating is to find your lifetime spouse, so as soon as you are aware that you cannot live with your date’s attitudes, values, habits, dynamic etc., end the relationship -first of all, it cannot go where you need your life to go, and second of all, it is unjust to lead your date any further on. Ask for and listen to advice from parents or other wise elders. that influences you against your desire to be chaste (chastity isn’t just about sex). Surround yourself with virtuous friends both guys & gals. Join good clubs on campus if studying, good young adult groups who can support you in your faith and values Ok NEXT: Who are we open to dating? This is a blog written by the man in the street for the man in the street; we are not presenting authoritative or ‘academic papers’ but sharing our thoughts and views, faithful to the Magisterium of today and yesterday (we hope!) Comments made and Posts to which we link are not necessarily supported by the authors of this blog, nor are the posts of either blogger the responsibility or views of the other! Has healthy relationships with his/her guy and gal friends iii. Does not have bad habits such as any forms of addiction vi. that influences you against your desire to be chaste (chastity isn’t just about sex). How to Date: Respectfully and Taking Precautions a.
We can see how unchastity makes us unholy, unhappy… “First sexual sin is sin and separates us from God. DATE WITH BLINDERS, narrow your field of vision to only that which is in your path to getting closer to God & Heaven. “Why tie one hand behind your back when pursuing ultimate goal, eternal life? He/she seeks purity of heart in his/her actions iv. Seclusion, remember, is a precursor to what is intimate and sensual.: do not ‘act’ as you think a man or woman should act; that is to deceive: be truly who you are.
While dating is part of life it should, like marriage, not be your only social outlet.